long weekend love.


We’ve been living this weekend, and it feels good and slow and bright and just right. And there are still a couple days left. I’m so full.

10636693_10101017690666800_1628068085596717976_o

10668763_10101017691445240_8902303942974308923_o

10660254_10101017691075980_6822289114944804810_n

10648504_10101017691854420_5139676843564176898_o

10348371_10101017691305520_7375304847778328378_n

 

And eating well. Those quiches, yes. Forever and always.

ombre!

So, yeah, my blog is pretty much becoming a chronicle of my ever changing hair and home. But, that’s just where I’m at!  Lots of home DIY, fun hair changes, and the daily grind of kiddos. I really couldn’t be happier, things feel really good right now. And I am feeling that readiness for Fall, routine, coziness, nesting, and all things pumpkin. And this hair, this feels like I’m ushering in Fall in a big way.

10580912_10101014713792480_6377229464120230613_o

10634037_10101014714535990_5687290413399240813_o

10626444_10101014715588880_8877838009627249781_o

IMG_2388

I feel cozy, fresh, and best of all; Just like myself again.

Bucket List Blonde

I come from blonde roots. My Mom is a blonde, my sister is, and all the nieces and nephews are little toe heads. I’ve always been dark haired. I would have been named Robin had I followed in all the blonde footsteps before me, but I came out with gorilla levels of nearly black hair, and so my sister got her way and I was named Autumn.

As long as I can remember I’ve wondered what it’s like to be blonde, could I pull it off? Would it be too weird? And… would it be more fun?

This past month has been a weird one, full of joy and fun but also transitions and tiredness, settling into our home and trying to find the groove we fit into. And in all that tumult and the dust settling around huge life changes I felt that itch. The one for a Big Change. It was this or a tattoo, so I figured it was time to scratch one off the list and just go for it.

I am so glad I did.

10420102_10100933083530180_1554885585341085984_nBefore…

10455028_10100933084024190_1114061868991160490_n

After!

I still feel a little like I am wearing a disguise but the strangest side effect is that I feel about 100X more confident and like such a girl! I’m getting dressed, grinning from ear to ear, and kinda feel like I’m walking on air. Being Blonde will be a short season for me, but one I can already tell I am going to adore. Cue the CHORUS: ” I ennnnnjoy being a girrrrl!”

IMG_1369

How to nurse in a dress!

I’ve been thinking about writing this post for ages! I’ve only come across a few dresses I can’t nurse in, but generally I’ve found there are tricks and ways to nurse in virtually any dress.
Here are my tricks when looking at dresses during shopping trips, and a few cheap items you can add to your wardrobe to make the dresses you already have work!
Photo on 12-5-13 at 4.06 PM #7
{how most of this post was written; while nursing, in a dress.}
Number ONE tip: TRY IT OUT. Don’t look at a dress and think “I could never nurse in that.”  When you are in the dressing room and you try on a dress, any dress! Give popping your boob out the top a go. It sounds weird, because it kind of is, but you would be surprised! Pull the dress neckline gently forward as far as you can, hike it up short short in the back, (it won’t matter, you’ll be sitting when you nurse!) and try to nurse. I guarantee you will be shocked! You would be surprised how much ‘give’ there is to this material if you just give nursing in it a shot, I’ve been shocked many, many times by what is ‘nursable’ even though it isn’t a traditionally stretchy feeling material. For example…
IMG_8826
{however, this dress is also a nice one to wear with leggings or jeggings to nurse. Because of the nipped in elastic waist it can almost act as a cover/tent feeling when I nurse by pulling it up, no need for any tank to cover my stomach. Like here!}
IMG_3683
The dress doesn’t have much stretch to it at all, but when I pull the dress forward a bit around my neckline before I sit down it raises it up (short!) in the back (but who cares?! I’m sitting!) and gives me enough space to be able to pop my boob out the top and easily nurse in it. Sames goes for this dress;
IMG_2142
And this one too;
IMG_5680
And here I am nursing in that dress;
1480639_10100715730602190_1053365901_n
Or this dress, below, it is jean material! But if I pull the neckline down and bend over a bit then I can get my boob out and easily nurse (and discreetly with a scarf or in the sling) even though there is almost no give to the high’ish neckline.
IMG_6722
Brings me to another tip; SCARVES. Nursing is a time to invest in many, many (like, you can’t have too many and I need ten more), light weight infinity scarves. I was gifted (thanks Mom!) one I adore and it was under $20 and from Brass Plum at Nordstroms (pictured above) and I use that one, and a few others to act as a nursing cover for me when I nurse in a dress. If you are going over the top and are well endowed you will be showing a lot of skin, and if that’s not your thing then using a scarf to help bring a little coverage is easy and still stylish. I like the infinity scarves best because I don’t have to take them off/rearrange it at all I just pull it over and down a bit, not over babies head, just over my exposed skin (like above!). (here is a link to the winter version of my springy one!)
As you can see, I wear scarves with my dresses a Lot;
IMG_5912IMG_1345
1459729_10100724172589380_457285165_n
And, nursing in the dress pictured above;
1458509_10100695017631150_654955295_n
If high necked and shortish; then add a stretchy little mini skirt underneath to make it easy to lift your dress up as you would any shirt. This skirt cost me $3 on clearance and they always have them in stock and it works really well to add a thick/cozy and non slippy layer to make nursing more discreet and easy!
382775_899499094700_433472_nHere it is making nursing easy and giving a little extra length to my (suddenly short!) dress with my little 17 weeks bump!
And, finally, the obvious tips;
JERSEY. My sister is rolling her eyes right now, but really! There are lots of cute jersey dresses out there and they make nursing so.easy. and when you wash and dry they lose any sort of neck slack you created. Here are some of my easy to nurse in dresses. I look for a nice mid thigh length (I wear leggings under often and then can just lift up, or I use my skirt trick), a fitted silhouette, and not too low of a neckline.
IMG_5696
249357_296701360429611_2088615951_n
And, also, button down dresses (lots of vintage dresses with that style!) or wrap dresses will forever be nursing friendly. Especially if paired with a light scarf.
Any other tips you seasoned nursers have? I’m wrapping this up more quickly than I planned I have to get back to nursing my around-the-clock-hungry baby!
Here’s my shopping list!
00090721-03
1: Ikat (with black black tights and high high heels this would be an easy way to make a jersey dress holiday party ready!
00065139-012. Poetic Shift- This with jeggings and heels, or yellow tights and a mini underneath (this would be a drop the belt and lift the dress kinda nurser) would also be great for a fun friends holiday party or a date day!
00073170-02
3. Darling Stripes - this one looks perfect because it gives the little waist but without a side zip! So again this with a mini underneath, or with leggings would be another great holiday look!
00073721-044. Lace Fit and Flare - I’m just kidding. I don’t think I could nurse in this, though I’m up for the challenge. I just want it so bad to wear on a date!
{no affiliate links or compensation, I really do just troll F21 and Nordies too much}

Dressember 2013

I decided to full force jump into Dressember this year, I’ve done it in the past as a fun “get dressed!” inspiration but never fully committed. This year the terms of Dressember changed, the goal no long just to ‘wear a dress’ but so much bigger than that.

To make a change. To raise awareness.

{from dressember.net }

“What began in 2009 as a quirky style challenge with a clever name spread like wildfire. Put simply, Dressember is a month of wearing dresses. At its core, Dressember is a celebration of femininity and beauty. It has created a community the globe of like-minded individuals who would not have otherwise ever come in contact with one another.

In 2013, Dressember took on new meaning: opposing human trafficking by aligning with International Justice Mission. IJM is a human rights organization that works to rescue victims of slavery, sexual exploitation, and other forms of violent oppression. Now, those who participate in Dressember are also seeking to raise awareness and funds for IJM’s work to continue. The heart of Dressember is freedom– that every woman, man, and child has the right to be free to live a vibrant life.”

1463927_10100726142242180_1361731703_n{two of dressembers smaller statured participants}

I decided to participate because this is a cause that is important. Overwhelming. And heartbreaking. I look at my two girls and know that we know wealth, safety, security, warmth, and a life without fear in a way that many women, children, and men couldn’t begin to dream of. Today my girls donned dresses, not because they know or understand this cause, but because ” We can help other people with a dress!” and Nolie’s words ring true.

Raise a voice! Give a dollar (or, you know, a hundred!)! Participate, tell your friends and family, ask them to donate. Save up some change, forgo fancy syrup in your holiday drink (or don’t, because it’s delish and you can probably afford $4 for coffee and $5 for an amazing cause!), give a little to help a lot.

collagedressember{dressember day 2} follow along on instagram #dressember2013

In 2011 alone, IJM partnered with local authorities to rescue more than 1,600 children, women and men from sex trafficking, forced labor slavery and other violent oppression, and helped put more than 100 slave-owners, traffickers and rapists behind bars.

Today, over 27 million men, women, and children are trapped in slavery. That’s more people than the entire course of the Trans-Atlantic slave trade. The mission of Dressember is to put a stop to one of the greatest social injustices of our time. Dressember participants wear dresses every day during the month of December to celebrate the freedom of beauty and femininity that they’re allowed, and to raise awareness and funds on behalf of those who aren’t free to live vibrant, autonomous lives. One hundred percent of the funds raised during Dressember will go directly to International Justice Mission, a human rights organization that has worked tirelessly for over 15 years to bring rescue to victims of slavery, sexual exploitation, and violent oppression. Together, we can make a lasting global impact.

1459729_10100724172589380_457285165_n

{day one}

Please consider donating to this cause, and it isn’t too late to participate! There are a whole lotta dress filled days left in December! Here is my IMJ account that is easy to donate through, or you can donate through dressember.net as well.

http://www.ijmfreedommaker.org/account/7390/Autumn-Baughn

http://www.dressember.net

Getting Dressed!


So, I’ve been getting dressed! Preschool has made my getting dressed record take a hit (when did 9am become so early?). But for parties, family dates, and Saturday my amount of ‘real clothes’ wearing has been sky high. Here are a few of the documented wears.

IMG_6096

I’m peplum obsessed.

top: target

jeans: H&M

shoes: gapIMG_3997
IMG_5913

Dress: Forever 21

leggings: Nordstroms (gift from my mom)

Shoes: Forever 21

IMG_5846

And this outfit is blurry, but the event was document worthy- WE WENT ON A DATE!

shirt: Romy (heyo- peplum!)

jeans: H&M, I pretty much only wear the $10 denim from there. They fit well, don’t stretch too much, are the right price for being playdoughed/painted/milk soaked all the time, and I love the super dark wash.

shoes: Forever 21IMG_6063

(ladies night!)

dress: Nordstoms (gift from my madre!)

boots: Frye (year? ten? I still love them.)

Oh fall, tis the season to wear real clothes that I love. Stay tuned, more outfits coming!

Garage Sale Season

Charlie is a hardcore garage saler. His family knows when the big sales are, what to look for, how to haggle, and when to get there. They are PRO. I am not, at all. I am picky, easily grossed out, only like a very specific look, and don’t like to haggle. But, in the 9 years we have been together we have both tempered each other and have become an unstopable garage saleing duo.

We go with a budget, cash amount, and a fairly specific list. And a lot of hand sanitizer.

My favorite thing to hunt for, other than furniture (I have a furniture buying problem, and a small budget. Match made in granny-garagesale-heaven), are homemade blankets. I don’t know how to knit or crochet and so I am totally awed by sweet hand made granny blankets. Give me a clean line, modern grey couch covered in cozy chevron striped old lady blankets any day. Swoon.

So yesterday we went to a huge sale. And I may have bought… six….

581748_10100593345487940_1960985868_n 1003870_10100594031682800_832178896_n

But, at $2 a piece! How could I not?! All that time, hands working hard, sweet concentrated work. I once knit half a scarf with my grandma and it was a huge labor of love. And it doesn’t even look that great. But I still sport it all winter because I feel so connected to her in it and proud of it. So these blankets? They must have love in each stitch. It breaks my heart to see them stacked on a table at a garage sale, after all that work and time. I want to fill them up with fort ceilings, nursing sessions, blanket cuddled reading marathons, and cozy middle of the night snuggles. They deserve it. And yes, I am anthropomorphizing knit goods. But I have two ladies who are just as blanket obsessed as I am, fall is right on the cusp, and we are all ready for some snuggling up.

We’re in love. So, knitters of the PNW, don’t fret if your blankets get tossed and relegated to the ‘giveaway’ pile. I’ll find them. And love them.

Chop, chop!

I’m feeling so fresh and so clean! Freedom!

IMG_8479

collagehairsOkay Summer time, I’m ready now.

Getting Dressed

Sooooo, I still ended up missing Fashion Week. I’m the lamest! But, Ever’s first birthday kind of knocked me down emotionally (when did my baby get so old??) and we have been/are crazy busy. I am really looking forward to June, when all will calm down and just family time will reign supreme. The summer days are coming.

But, I did get dressed!

Photo on 4-24-13 at 10.34 AM

Excuse my messy house, but… I got a tattoo! Right?! I’ll post more photos/back story soon. But for now, there’s the peek at my red and swollen, raw and scabby little tattoo. This dress is one of my faves, I picked it up when I was a million weeks pregnant and dreamt of the days of nipped in waists and summer dresses. And they have arrived. It was a clearance rack snag from Old Navy

collagehere

 

Also, this is too funny not to post. Hair flip at it’s best.

Headband; local saturday market find

dress: Anthro

belt: H&M

tights: nordstroms

boots: hunter

And one more tattoo picture for good measure.

IMG_8218

Here’s to May going quick and June going slow!

Spring Fashion Week- meant to be.

OH MY WORD. Ok, the true confession here is this- I haven’t looked at/read anything in my reader in…. six months? I have been behind. I think of a blog I am aching to read, but by the time I get to my computer, get a moment, I get distracted and lose it and then the babies up, the toddler needs a snack, the hubby is home, dinner needs making, you know the drill. BUT, in the last week my baby has started being a big kid and napping. Like, real life naps not on me. And it’s every bit as weird as I thought it would be.

But I am finding a groove. And tonight I found myself with time, impetus, and energy. So, I opened my reader and found something INCREDIBLE. It’s fashion week!!!! Okay, it’s half over and I am late to the party in a big way. So I am putting  a placeholder collage of outfits out there and tomorrow I will get in the game in real time!

I can’t wait to spend tomorrow night checking out all your lady’s pretty looks! If you want to play along, or just get some outfit inspo from gorgeous women. Head on over to Delirious Rhapsody and check it out!

collagefashion!

The outfits come from all over. . . but, nearly all of them are gifts from my parents. I’m a lucky lady.